Code of Conduct

    Our Expectations

    By Attending SF Jacks you are bound by:

    1. JO ONLY
      1. In the spirit/context which SF Jacks was create sexual activity is strictly limited to masturbation and mutual masturbation. Oral and anal sex of any form is never permitted at SF Jacks’ events. In short, “no lips below the hips” and “nothing goes inside anybody’s anything.”
    2. PERMITTED PLAY BY MUTUAL CONSENT
      1. Self-masturbation
      2. Consensual mutual masturbation
      3. Erotic and friendly touch
      4. Showing-off and watching
      5. Parallel penis-to-penis masturbation
      6. Frottage / Rubbing bodies together
      7. Oral above the waist (e.g., kissing, nipple nibbling, armpit licking, etc.)
    3. PROHIBITED PLAY
      1. No poppers
      2. If you don’t have consent, you may not touch another member
      3. No oral (mouth to penis) sex
      4. Docking/foreskin sharing
      5. No anal contact (never even touch any butthole, including your own)
      6. No butt play whatsoever, including rimming
      7. No aggressive or prolonged urethra play/sounding
      8. No jackoff sleeves (e.g., Fleshlights, silicone double ended masturbation sleeves)
    4. NUDITY
      1. Minimum participation is stripping to a single article of underwear, a jock or a tee/tank upon arrival
      2. Hats, fetish wear, and gear (harnesses, pup hoods, etc) are always permitted,
        and some themes may invite specific clothing
      3. Never wear anything that may hurt or tear your skin or anyone else’s skin
      4. Footwear may be required at certain events
    5. EJACULATION
      1. Always warn verbally before you ejaculate. Do not just breathe heavily or moan. Say it out loud with words!
      2. Ejaculate on yourself, the floor or any canvas-covered surface
      3. Explicit, mutual consent is required before ejaculating on others
      4. Always thoroughly wipe up semen from any surfaces
      5. Never allow semen on anyone’s anus
      6. No semen ingestion permitted
    6. EXPLICIT CONSENT & MUTUAL RESPECT
      1. Consent is required before touching another member’s body. This includes but is
        not limited to penis, kissing, body contact, etc.
      2. Remember: every person is in charge of their body. You own your body as does
        every other member you encounter in the playspace.
      3. Always ask before touching someone who hasn’t given consent
      4. Be prepared to say “no” and always take “no” for an answer. Never press the
        issue. We treat each other with mutual respect and human dignity, like brothers.
      5. Please respect all members’ pronouns, sexual orientations, and gender
        identities.
    7. DISCRETION & ANONYMITY
      1. Never, at any time, disclose any member’s identity to anyone, either inside the club or out. Ever. What you do here, who you see here, stays here. Violation of any member’s identity is grounds for being banned from SF Jacks.
      2. Recording of audio or visual during any event is prohibited.
        1. Audio or visual media may be obtained at designated, preannounced
          times before or after a scheduled event.
    8. HEALTH POLICY
      1. Do not attend a SF Jacks’ event if you have or suspect that you may have any
        diseases you can spread to other members while at the event
        1. This includes, but is not limited to, COVID-19, mpox, common colds and
          flu, staph infections, herpes breakouts, fungal infection (“jock itch”), and
          any other sexually transmitted infections.
      2. HIV is not considered communicable in the context SF Jack’s permitted activities.
        Members who are HIV-positive and undetectable are welcome to join the club
        and participate in events in accordance with our rules, as there is no evidence of transmission of the virus through mutual masturbation.
    9. ALCOHOL & DRUGS
      1. Poppers are not permitted.
      2. No recreational or illicit drugs or alcohol of any kind are permitted at SF Jacks’
        events.
      3. Do not arrive at bate events intoxicated. Intoxicated members will not be
        admitted or may be ejected from the event.
      4. All forms of smoking (including, but not limited to, vapes, pens, cigarettes/cigars, etc.) are no permitted at an SF Jacks’ event
    10. PERSONAL HYGIENE
      1. Your body and hands should be clean when you attend a SF Jacks’ event
      2. Please keep teeth brushed and fingernails trimmed short and smooth
      3. Please avoid bad breath and excessive body odor before entering the play space
      4. Start every event with a trip to the washroom to wash your hands and use
        mouthwash, whether you think you need it or not.
      5. Do not wear any fragrance/heavy amounts of deodorant to CJ events.